Love is authentic only when it gives Freedom . Let this be the criterion, Love is true only when it does not interfere in the privacy of another person, it respects his/her individuality,privacy .
But what I had noticed that lovers you see around the world , their whole effort is that nothing should be private . All secrets should be told to them. Everyone (even me)is Afraid of Individuality.
I had been doing same thing but now its time to change.

(A man who loves himself takes the first step towards real love -Osho )
