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Never blame or judge others for how you feel

No one likes to be judged or criticized. When we blame or judge others for how we feel we inevitably also judge and blame ourselves.

Instead of blaming others, look inside and ask yourself: Why am I being triggered by what he or she said? Why am I blaming him or her for how I feel? What is this person or situation teaching me about myself? Pay attention to how others reflect back what you need to see about yourself.

Try to understand what you are being shown about yourself and what lessons you need to learn. Remind yourself that other people are wonderful mirrors to help you see your unconscious thought patterns and grow. – Osho

Your interests and hobbies

Obviously you shouldn’t feel pressured to drop all of your interests and adopt new ones when you get into a relationship.

But it’s only natural that the more time you spend with someone, the more invested you could reasonably become in the stuff that person likes.

Hold on to your previous hobbies, but be willing to explore the things that appeal to your partner. You might just discover new things whatever that you absolutely love.

Authenticity & Freedom in Love.

Love is authentic only when it gives Freedom . Let this be the criterion, Love is true only when it does not interfere in the privacy of another person, it respects his/her individuality,privacy .

But what I had noticed that lovers you see around the world , their whole effort is that nothing should be private . All secrets should be told to them. Everyone (even me)is Afraid of Individuality.

I had been doing same thing but now its time to change.

In search of love and peace
(A man who loves himself takes the first step towards real love -Osho )