Your interests and hobbies

Obviously you shouldn’t feel pressured to drop all of your interests and adopt new ones when you get into a relationship.

But it’s only natural that the more time you spend with someone, the more invested you could reasonably become in the stuff that person likes.

Hold on to your previous hobbies, but be willing to explore the things that appeal to your partner. You might just discover new things whatever that you absolutely love.

Authenticity & Freedom in Love.

Love is authentic only when it gives Freedom . Let this be the criterion, Love is true only when it does not interfere in the privacy of another person, it respects his/her individuality,privacy .

But what I had noticed that lovers you see around the world , their whole effort is that nothing should be private . All secrets should be told to them. Everyone (even me)is Afraid of Individuality.

I had been doing same thing but now its time to change.

In search of love and peace
(A man who loves himself takes the first step towards real love -Osho )