Freedom is synonym for Love

If I love someone I am grateful and her freedom remains intact. It is not given by me. It is her birthright, and my love cannot take it away. How can love take somebody’s freedom away, particularly the person you love? It is her birthright. You cannot even say, “I give freedom to her.” Who are you in the first place? – just a stranger. You have met on the road, by the way, accidentally, and she was gracious to accept your love. Just be thankful, and let her live the way she wants to live, and live the way you yourself want to live. Your lifestyle should not be interfered with.

This is what freedom is. Then love will help you to be less tense, less full of anxieties, less in anguish, and more in joy.

Add a Liberal Dose of Understanding

The closer the relationship with someone is, the more effort you should make to understand them. Someone becomes closer and dearer to you only as you understand them better. If they understand you, they enjoy the closeness of the relationship. If you understand them better, then you enjoy the closeness.

If you are expecting the other to understand and comply with you all the time while you don’t understand the limitations, possibilities, needs and capabilities of that person, then conflict is all that will happen.

Treat life’s challenges as opportunities.

Every relationship offers us many opportunities to learn and to grow. We often miss these opportunities by staying attached to our ego and its desires.

Observe your beliefs about how life or other people should be and behave and welcome every challenging situation as an opportunity to learn, grow, and expand your consciousness.

Its time to change .

Its time to accept all the challenges & help each other and establish a healthy relationship.

Authenticity & Freedom in Love.

Love is authentic only when it gives Freedom . Let this be the criterion, Love is true only when it does not interfere in the privacy of another person, it respects his/her individuality,privacy .

But what I had noticed that lovers you see around the world , their whole effort is that nothing should be private . All secrets should be told to them. Everyone (even me)is Afraid of Individuality.

I had been doing same thing but now its time to change.