Freedom is synonym for Love

If I love someone I am grateful and her freedom remains intact. It is not given by me. It is her birthright, and my love cannot take it away. How can love take somebody’s freedom away, particularly the person you love? It is her birthright. You cannot even say, “I give freedom to her.” Who are you in the first place? – just a stranger. You have met on the road, by the way, accidentally, and she was gracious to accept your love. Just be thankful, and let her live the way she wants to live, and live the way you yourself want to live. Your lifestyle should not be interfered with.

This is what freedom is. Then love will help you to be less tense, less full of anxieties, less in anguish, and more in joy.

Authenticity & Freedom in Love.

Love is authentic only when it gives Freedom . Let this be the criterion, Love is true only when it does not interfere in the privacy of another person, it respects his/her individuality,privacy .

But what I had noticed that lovers you see around the world , their whole effort is that nothing should be private . All secrets should be told to them. Everyone (even me)is Afraid of Individuality.

I had been doing same thing but now its time to change.

In search of love and peace
(A man who loves himself takes the first step towards real love -Osho )